Beauty is in the eye of the beholder

Hi All,

One morning on my way to work I was thinking what really does beauty in the eye of the beholder mean?....

Like, I felt if someone is fine then the person should be fine to everyone else, you know.....

Then I got thinking and realised that beauty does rely on who is looking at you, you might ask what do I mean and here is what I think/mean...

In a class of girls where everybody has their different physical attributes; light, dark, short, tall and the likes. A girl might be picked to be the finest of em all and someone else can pick another girl and say she is the finest and this goes on and on. Some people might agree and some won't.

This happens because of the character of each of these girls, after meeting a person who you got attracted to because of the physical, what keeps you, makes you view the person differently, makes you fall in love or not fall in love is the character of that individual.

A beautiful person can become not so attractive if she has a horrible attitude. You know there is a saying that you attract who you are and that is mostly true plus there is a certain kind of character of a person every individual will find attractive.

A guy can meet a girl he feels is just alright to him, become friends with her, finds out she has an amazing personality and all of a sudden he begins to find her really attractive which he didn't at first when he met her.

Remember people are attracted too different personalities or characters of a person, so that character that makes a person find someone attractive can make someone else find the person less attractive.

Most of the time we are usually attracted to the kind of person that we are, so there is a danger of attracting that person that you are like and then the person exhibits those bad characteristics you don't like and you wonder....why do I keep attracting people like this, the first thing to do is examine yourself properly and check what isn't right about you.

We are all a work in progress, growing gradually and atimes the growing stage you are in is when you shouldn't be in a relationship but wait to pass that stage because in those times we usually get attracted to what level we are in that moment when you deserve more because when you move from that level the person might not move at the rate you are and then you begin to loose interest in that person.

So the best thing is to wait till the right time(trying and asking for help from God to inbibe this), wait on God to give you that person that is fit for you....remember the guys you were attracted to in your teens, I am sure at this next stage some of you can't even look at those guys twice anymore and why because you have grown out of that stage and they are not fit for you.

I am talking to myself as well, the key is 'BE PATIENT', don't be in a hurry. God has an amazing person in store for you and me.



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